whose life is it that we lead ?
is it our parents’ vision of what should be happening in our lives ?
or what the people close to us believe we should do ?
or what the people we love want us to do ?
or what has been “foretold” for us ?
is it ever what we want to do ?
how do we know this last has not been shaped by what all the above tell us ?
or is it all just a massive joke, where nothing happens unless it is supposed to happen?
if it is, i’m not laughing.